BRAD INDUSTRIES · CREW FILE · EMERGENCY RESPONSE
Lights Out
Division of Closed for the Day
“The building is closed. Try again tomorrow.”
Also goes by the isolator, the shutdown, the sleeper.
When it’s too much, I hit the switch. Phone off. Door locked. Curtains closed. Blanket on. I’m not being rude. I’m the reason the building didn’t burn down.
nap time
In red crayon: the inner child. Three words or fewer. Usually right.
His file
1What he says, and what’s underneath it
- What he says
- “I just need to be alone.”
- What he means
- There’s nothing left to give today.
- The feeling under that
- Drained. Too tired to explain.
- The need under that
- To rest without having to earn it or explain it.
Brad only ever says the top line. Everything under it is what he’s guarding.
2How to spot him
- Cancels plans at the last minute.
- Sleeps more when things are hard.
- Goes silent in the middle of a conflict.
- Feels better alone, then lonely.
3Who he’s protecting
- He’s protecting
- The part of you that felt alone and overwhelmed.
- On duty against
- Being overwhelmed with no way out.
- Where he got the job
- Brads like yours usually get hired when there was too much, too often, and nowhere to rest.
4His real talent
- What he’s good at
- He knows when the battery is empty. He’s a recovery expert.
- Off duty, he’s
- The keeper of a cozy room with the lights low.
- His blind spot
- He locks out the hard things and the good things.
5What helps him stand down
- What he needs from you
- Plan the shutdown before you need it. A real rest, with a time to reopen.
- Say this to him
- “Rest is allowed. We open when we’re ready.”
- Skip this
- “You can’t just disappear.”
- Ask him this
- “What would make rest feel allowed?”
- Ask your people for
- Space without guilt, and a gentle check-in later.
Try this tonight
Before you shut down, send one short line to someone: “I’m out of battery. Back tomorrow.”
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Your Brad, meet theirs
One file covers one Brad. Most of the trouble happens between two. Take the quiz with a partner, friend, family member or coworker, and Brad writes the joint report: the loop your two Brads get stuck in, and the words that work.